Julie's Little Joys

Winter Walk:: Misty Morn

2012-02-12T12:33:00.000-08:00

Love my walks:: such beauty surrounding us:: no matter what the season::

Snuggles and Huggles

2012-02-09T12:29:00.000-08:00

Both kiddos were shattered the other day, so we had early bath and bed and then (since I was feeling pretty tired out myself) I decided that we would all listen to Bear's current bed time read in my bed. We're currently reading "The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe" which is a favourite tenderly remembered from my own childhood, and I have to say, I am enjoying it as much now as I did then. So we started reading and a couple of chapters down I realised that I was the only one left listening to the story. How sweet do they look there ? My little darlings. Not so little when it comes to picking them up and putting them back in their own beds these days, but oh, so lovely that I can still read them to sleep, snuggle with them and enjoy every precious moment with them.

Lovely Morning

2012-02-06T12:25:00.000-08:00

For the first time in a long time it was just me and Butterfly one morning. Bear was on a sleepover and M was a work. Oh, we had such a good time. I did my morning yoga, and my little sweetie joined in whenever she could. Then we enjoyed a cup of chai together before running a long hot bath, scented with the fabulous fizzer from Lush - pretty pink bath water with tiny confetti hearts floating in it. After the bath we had snuggles on my bed and read stories together, before baking some delicious cup cakes from one of her favourite books.

oh, how I adore these special times and my sweet darling girl who brings such joy to everything we do.

Sweet present

2012-02-03T12:14:00.000-08:00

A sweet friend brought me these recently:: they are so beautiful:: they have blossomed over the past few weeks, and now the entire house is scented with a delicious natural perfume:: blessed with friends, flowers and family, who could ask for more

Grandad's Birthday

2012-01-31T12:17:00.000-08:00

The other day we celebrated our very dear Dad and Grandad's birthday. A special birthday too - it was his 65th (bet he's glad that I've announced that). We spent some time choosing and wrapping his presents, including a selection of whiskeys, which were very appreciated!!

We celebrated on the Sunday so that the children could be a part of it - we went out for a delicious meal to a favourite pub of his, which, somewhat unexpectedly, but much to my delight, had a great selection of veggie and even vegan meals (the Five Bells at Clyst Hydon) which were really lovely. So we all enjoyed a gorgeous meal before returning to my Mum's for a present opening and playing session. Later in the evening my parents went out to see War Horse, and I'm looking forward to seeing what they thought of it - I'd really like to see it myself.

In a couple of days, on his actual birthday, he and I are off out for a special day - we are walking the River Otter and stopping off for lunch at Otterton Mill, a perfect day out for both of us, which I am really looking forward to. Happy times.

I really do have the best Dad, and the children the best Grandad in the world. Always there to listen, but never judges, always plenty of time for us when we want him but ready to take a back seat when we are busy with other things, understanding, caring, generous and just all round a pretty amazing guy. We are so fortunate to have him in our lives and look forward to celebrating many more happy days with him in the future.

All change

2012-01-29T11:57:00.000-08:00

Behind the scenes at Joy Towers here there's been quite a bit going on over the last few months.

First off, we are in the tricky process of moving. I don't want to say too much for fear of jinxing it as nothing is set in stone yet, but we've found a site that we love, which is having a fabulous eco home built on it, so we are hoping with everything crossed that it will one day end up as ours. Lots of site meetings and discussions about specifications and type of kitchen and bathroom are following, which is both terrifying and fabulously exciting all at the same time. Sometimes my head is just spinning at the thought of all the things that we need to do. If all goes well and according to plan, it'll be ready for about the start of April. The greatest part is that is a mere 7 minutes drive from school (as opposed to the 35 minutes that we are doing every day, each way, at the moment).

Although, that brings me to the next big bit of news. Although the new house, if we get it, will mean no commute for the kiddos, or much less of one at least, in a twist of events, I will still be making a 40 minute drive each day as I'm going back to work!! Gulp!!

A great offer came up from my old work that would really suit me, but was for 4 days per week. M has been hugely unhappy at his job for years, but because of me staying home, hasnt been able to do anything about it. So, then, when this chance came up we decided to seize it with both hands - so I'm going back and M has handed his notice in and is going to stay home for the summer with the kiddos and do a bit of house husbanding. A complete role reversal for us both. It's going to be interesting and challenging and plenty of other things besides but aside from feeling slightly daunted, and of course, knowing that I'm going to miss the children terribly (in fact, I'm not really thinking about that bit too closely) it's also pretty exciting.

So, what with job interviews and studying and house site meetings and everything in between time has been ummm, scarce to say the least. So I've not been checking in with blogs or reading much at all but I am hoping that I will be able to do a bit more before I start back in the office. My plan is to try to keep going with writing this blog at least, although I'm not sure whether that's realistic or not, and I'll try to keep up with my favourite blogs too, but for the short term I might be a little bit absent, but one thing i know is that I'll be missing you all far too much to stay away for long!

Mummy's Little Helper

2012-01-26T07:32:00.000-08:00

In this house if we're not reading, walking or playing we're usually eating.

Good job I have two such eager mummy's little helpers to assist me. Although their main focus seems to be licking the bowl, and eating the results!!

Slapton

2012-01-23T07:26:00.000-08:00

You may remember I posted back in November about a very moving ceremony that the children attended at school to mark Remembrance Day. Well, out of that we had a discussion about the war and were telling Bear about how they practised for the D Day landings at a beach not too far from us called Slapton Sands. Due to christmas and birthdays and all other manner of things inbetween we never actually got around to visiting until recently, but these are some pictures from when we finally did. There is a specially preserved Sherman Tank commemorating the sacrifices involved. Hundreds of villagers were required to leave their homes, farms and all their possessions for over 6 months to enable the practices to take place. Almost 800 soldiers lost their lives during the exercises and the success of the D Day landings is considered largely down to the careful planning and the lessons that were learned. It really is fascinating to learn all about it. We were blessed with a dry bright day, so we took a picnic for the beach and had a long and lovely family walk down the beach to the Tank and information site and then back through the nature reserve, with the children taking turns to be leader of our expedition. We have so much to be grateful for - for the blessings in our lives and the sacrifices that past generations made in order that we can enjoy the lifestyles we have now. Certainly much to think on.

Dawn Breaking

2012-01-21T07:21:00.000-08:00

I thought I had a really lovely picture of the dawn breaking from a couple of days ago when the sky was full of gorgeous pinks and purples, but I can't track it down anywhere, so instead, here's a picture from the middle of the day, and the middle of the beach. Blue skies, how I long for their proper return, and some warmth. Oh for summer days!!

Fun at the Museum

2012-01-18T09:20:00.000-08:00

For years now the local museum in our town has been closed. I had started to think that although it originally was supposed to have closed for refurbishment, that, with the current cutbacks, it would never re-open again. Whilst I think that the refurbishments took longer and were more expensive than originally intended, it did re-open just before christmas, so we took the chance to pay a visit.

It is absolutely fantastic. I can't believe how much they have there. There are some temporary exhibitions that will change every month or so, a huge gallery (which we didn't even touch on, but which I will definitely be going back to sans children): a room devoted to Devon History throughout the ages, an Egyptian collection (of special interest to Bear) a Natural history area (including Gerald the Giraffe, a big hit with Butterfly) and a world collection, with artifacts from all corners of the globe. Given the location near the Jurassic coastline there is also an impressive fossil display and I am sure, much more that we didn't manage to take in this time. But I know we will definitely be back!

It's a lovely size - plenty to see but not overwhelming and it would be hard to say whether the kids or I enjoyed it more - lots of points of interest. And it was packed (being school holidays and all) but I am just so pleased to see it well supported - it is really something that I felt the city missed, and we are so fortunate now to have it back again. I can see many happy times here as the children grow up - certainly we will all learn plenty from our visits.

Suff Puff

2012-01-16T07:15:00.000-08:00

I had an hour or two to myself the other day as the children were out with their grandparents. I got very into my crafty bits before christmas and completed a number of makes (Christmas bunting, crochet covers for some cushions and an applique picture) all of which I was most pleased with. I wanted a simple, quick little project like that, and remembered a friend wearing a gorgeous brooch the other day, so decided to try my hand at making something similar. For an hour or less of sewing (including digging out some suitable fabric) I am really most pleased with the result - I wear a lot of the dark reddish colour in the winter so I think this will work really well and pretty up a number of jumpers that I have. Apparently they are known as Suffolk Puffs, no idea why, or pom-pom brooches. Either way, I likey as a nice, easy quick craft - instant gratification is a good thing!!

Looking forward to making even more crafting things during the next few months - especially as Father Christmas was kind enough to bring me a sewing machine - I need to get it all properly figured out, but can't wait to start using it properly and have so many ideas and plans and things I want to try!

Other stuff we have been doing round here

2012-01-14T07:10:00.000-08:00

The weather's been very good for this time of year really, but there's no denying,

it's chilly, damp and dull out which means that our outside time tends to be limited and very active to ensure that we all keep warm. So we have been finding ways to amuse ourselves inside. One of the current favourites is a teddy bears picnic. Funnily enough, after Christmas we had a bit of a toy review and cleared lots of stuff out, including masses of cuddlies that were really never played with. Since then those that remained behind have been played with far more - I think before there were so many it was just overwhelming. Many a happy indoor picnic has been arranged on the floor - most lunchtimes recently, and much hilarity has ensued. I love the way each of their special toys is so enfused with personality for them, and the playacting and discussions that take place are hilarious and eye opening in equal measure!!

What we do around here

2012-01-11T07:03:00.000-08:00

I've always been a bookworm and ever since I was able to read my first book (which I have clear memory of doing) my favourite way to while away an hour or day is to bury myself in a book. I am thrilled that Bear has inherited this love of literature. He's been reading almost more than he's been playing during the last few weeks. He loves the BeastQuest series (definitely recommend them for a 8-10 year old boy) and has been steadily working his way through them all. Having temporarily run out prior to our next scheduled library trip he picked up Swallows and Amazons and is now hooked on that, reading every space moment that he can.

For bed time reads I am reading the Narnia series of books to him. We've completed Magician's Nephew and are part way through Lion, Witch and Wardrobe. Again, I remember these books so fondly from my youth and I am loving having the chance to read them again with him. So much so, that we keep reading when it really should be lights out!

Equally I can't wait until Butterfly is a little older and I can share some of my other favourites with her (Ballet Shoes and F Hodgson Burnett's Little Princess in particular).

And me, well, and the moment I am reading the latest Paulina Simons, and loving it, and then looking to move on to reading some diaries and letters from WW2, which look absolutely fascinating. I just wish there were more hours in the day for more time to read!

New Years Day

2012-01-09T06:51:00.001-08:00

I realised I've yet to post about our New Year's Day outing.

We've created an annual tradition of going to the North Devon Coast on New Years Day, to Woolacombe, which is a family favourite destination. It stems from a wonderful New Years M and I had pre-children with friends, when we celebrated long into the night, woke to a bright, sunny and beautiful New Years Day and walked off the excesses with a stroll along the beach.

Well, those kind of celebrations don't really happen any more, so we enjoyed a quiet night at home on New Year's Eve but we still maintain the tradition of the beach walk, which is something the children can participate in and share with us, and still blows the cobwebs away.

We've managed it in rain, hail, sun and snow. This year it was very damp and grey and dismal: Bear had been feeling under the weather since Christmas and I was almost tempted not to bother, but M cajoled us into continuing and I am so glad he did!

I had my reservations (as did he) as the weather worsened while we drove over Exmoor and heavy rain lashed down at the car. But we continued on, determined to get there, even if we just poked our noses out.

As if by magic though, as we found a normally elusive parking space, the rain dried up, the clouds lightened and we were able to get out and breath in the fresh sea air. Some hardy souls were surfing (rather them than me, that'll never happen on New Years in this country) but we found our pleasures amongst the rock pools, and rushing towards the waves.

Before too long though fingers, noses and toesies were feeling the cold wind and the clouds were looking ominous once more, so we wisely adjourned to our regular little icecream shop and cafe, where the obligatory icecream for the kiddos and latte for the grownups were enjoyed. Just time for a brisk stroll back to the car, the discovery of a little hideaway cove we've not found before near where we parked and then into the warmth and dryness of the car as the next belt of rain came through.

Another year, the tradition retained, and now we are more determined than ever to see it through. One of the other things we always do, which the children specifically remembered and asked to do this year, is spend New Year's Eve going through all the photos taken during the previous year (and yes, it does take most of the day) Each of us picks a favourite or two from each month and then we write down the things we specially enjoyed doing or seeing that month. I print off the photos and a reminder of what the choices were and then in the evening we take turns reviewing our highlights and the reasons why (with us obviously reading on behalf of Butterfly). It is such a lovely way to celebrate the passing of the year, to remember all the good things and set some ideas in motion for what we want to bring into the next year. So many good times and we are all so lucky to have each other. Definitely this new years day will make it onto my best list at the end of this year, I am sure!

Shipley Bridge

2012-01-07T09:12:00.000-08:00

We had a family walk to South Brent on Dartmoor. It was lovely, such beautiful scenery. We take a tiny walled path (a proper old Devon Green Lane) until we find the waterful, and stand in awe at the white cascades foaming in front of us, then we turn and follow the river along, over rapids and rushing currents, to the smoother calmer tranquil waters. There we find a tiny river beach edged with stones for playing and throwing.

This time we took a turn away from the river, climbed up over the hill, encountered some beautiful horses and then clambered and slipped our way along the hilly muddy path through the woods back down to the river.

Time to run and play for the kiddos, to walk and talk and reflect for me and M. Lovely times, happy days

Chocolate Log

2012-01-05T09:17:00.000-08:00

We enjoyed mince pies (delicious, and made by nana, whose mince pies are so much better than mine):: christmas fruit cake:: chocolate log:: lots of yummy treats.

Am thinking that January really needs to be time to detox and to find some healthy treats.

Most of the family seem to think that more cakeage is the way to go!

Fun in the woods

2012-01-03T09:09:00.000-08:00

After all the excesses and rich christmas food I've been craving fresh air, lots of exercise and simple veggies and fruit. We spent the other day in the woods - the kiddos needed the chance to run and scream and let of some of their energy which they did and we had such a

marvellous time. Climbing, exploring, breathing in deep, playing and stomping in the mud - such a tonic and so much fun to just completely chill out and be out in nature with nothing to do except enjoy ourselves and the natural winter beauty all around us.

Happy New Year

2011-12-31T09:07:00.000-08:00

My little Butterfly Fairy is just popping by to wish you all a very happy New Year. Hope the year is full of promise and fun and love and laughter, of good times, good health good company and good cheer.

Christmas Time

2011-12-30T09:04:00.000-08:00

So, did we all have a good time ? Ours truly was magical:: Fabulous presents:: feasts galore:: games:: giggles:: family:: friends:: fun:: laughter:: love.

Perfect. I am so blessed and so humbly grateful for it all.

A special visit

2011-12-29T08:51:00.000-08:00

I know Christmas is over, but I have a couple of special memories I'd like to record. Including one very special visit we made just a few days before the Big Day. Both children are still, for the last year, I fear, believers and we had a magical trip to see Father Christmas. We go to the same place every year and the Father Christmas really looks and sounds the part and is so so good with the children, we've done it for the last 7 years and have a photo like this from each year. It's amazing to see the changes each year, including, this year for the first time Butterfly being brave enough to sit with Father Christmas and tell him what she wanted - which he duly brought - thankfully!!

Such happy times, and ones I'm sure are going to be oh so fleeting. Determined to make the most of them while we can really enjoy the magic of christmas.

MERRY CHRISTMAS

2011-12-25T22:52:00.000-08:00

To one and all

Whatever you celebrate and however you do it::

Have a very merry time::

Remember we are here to celebrate:: to love one another:: to share in the joys of the season::

Love to you all::

MERRY CHRISTMAS

Homemade/Handmade

2011-12-23T22:43:00.000-08:00

In amongst it all I've managed to find some crafting time. And loved it actually. It's been a real antidote to all the other craziness that's been going on

A couple of simple quick easy projects, just to christmify things a bit:: some cheerful crochet cushions for cuddling on (already much used and a definite hit, am thinking non christmas versions will be required in the new year):: some christmas bunting for over the mantelpiece:: looks lovely with the twinkly lights on

Do love a bit of prettifying and a bit of christmassy crafting....

Yule

2011-12-22T22:48:00.000-08:00

As part of our Winter Solstice observation we had breakfast by candlelight.

It was utterly magical:: M had to leave for work early:: by the time the children had woken the house was in darkness and silence:: we started with a cuddle in bed, then came down stairs and lit all the candles:: then we had a gentle quiet peaceful breakfast watching dawn break on the shortest day:: it was a magical start to the day.

More on our other celebrations another time....

Oh Christmas Tree

2011-12-21T22:31:00.000-08:00

If I am honest, I've been struggling a bit to get in the christmassy mood this year. There are too many other events going on which are distracting me. Which I am kind of sad about as I do love Christmas and am normally really into it by now.

However, we have now decorated the tree and the house and I have to say I think that makes it for me. When I come into our sitting room and everything is pretty and cosy and twinkly, when I see the handmade decorations going up, remembering the times we made them, or the events of Christmases past, then I feel like I am properly in the mood for Christmas. Next year I definitely want the tree up a bit sooner.

But now we have the music, the scented oils, we've made a christmas cake, we're telling christmas stories and singing carols.....

Yes, I think it's beginning to look a lot like Christmas....and that makes me very happy indeed!

Nativity Two

2011-12-20T22:27:00.001-08:00

Sweet boy was a Smug Angel in his nativity. His teacher must have been chuckling as she allocated parts - let's just say that he wasn't the only angel that was type cast.

A considerably more polished performance than the Nursery one (although perhaps not with quite so much ahhh factor). They all sung beautifully, remembered a large amount of lines and were triumphant. The amount of work put in by the seamstress, the music staff and the children, can't be underestimated and I think everyone breathed a sigh of relief when it was over, and successful.

Now they are home, and piles of prep for Bear aside, we are relaxing and enjoying being in each others company and preparing for the Big Day.

Nativity One

2011-12-19T22:24:00.000-08:00

My darling girl was Mary in the nativity.

It was so sweet and magical.

And unintentionally hilarious:: they did their best, all of them, there was over enthusiastic singing, off key and out of time:: a sheep throwing competition by some bored shepherds:: Mary nearly dropped the baby and a couple of the angels had hissy fits about where they should be sitting. Other than than, perfect. Not a dry eye in the house.

Christmas is coming

2011-12-17T03:00:00.000-08:00

School holidays have started and we are starting to move away from the birthday celebrations to the christmas ones. We are planning to decorate the tree and the house over the next couple of days, (picture from last year) do some seasonal baking and generally start getting in the mood for christmas. Happy days

Birthday Season

2011-12-12T02:55:00.000-08:00

It's birthday celebration season here - home party for the Bear, followed by football party with his friends followed by M's birthday and a family meal out.

Good times.

Busy too. Also have friend's parties, carol service (s), house-warming, mama meet ups, two school plays, two school parties.

And then breathe. School holidays will start and I am muchly looking forward to a few very lazy days at home. And maybe even the chance to catch up on some blogs. :)

Seasonal Beauty

2011-12-09T07:35:00.000-08:00

A chance to soak up some of Nature's peace and tranquility. Always wonderful, but never more so than at this busy time of year.

Christmas Makes

2011-12-07T07:26:00.000-08:00

We did pretty well last year in simplifying Christmas and going for handmade.homemade whereever possible, which lead to the best and most enjoyable Christmas celebration that I can remember.

I am determined it will be just the same, if not more this year. We are saying no to things we don't really want to do. We are taking time to properly enjoy the things we are doing. We are looking for experiences and memories to be created rather than buying stuff.

So, one of the first things we've been doing is making presents for the children's teachers. We cut out and sewed up (with more or less assistance from me, depending on which child it was!) Christmas doves from some lovely fabrics I found:: then we soaked stuffing in some scented christmas oils before stuffing the birds, sewing the last bits together and linking them up with a nice festive tartan ribbon. I have to say, I'm rather proud of the results even if I say so myself. It's something simple, seasonal and I hope the teachers will like them (we also have a big box of handmade chocolates too, so I think they should be happy). The added bonus was that we spent two really lovely afternoons doing the making and all thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. Activities like this are important to me to take the focus off it being all about one day too - I like to spread out the celebrating and the excitement so that the big day doesn't become overwhelming, for mama or child!

Whilst I would do masses of makes and turn it into a chore, a few simple projects like this really add to the Christmassy build up and are so valuable in making the children think about the giving side of things as well as the getting - balancing up the score a bit if you will. I'll be posting some more during the rest of Advent about our pre-Christmas rituals and celebrations, and would love to hear what you are doing during his Advent period to create a sense of anticipation and peaceful enjoyment.

Look who's coming to town ???

2011-12-04T07:21:00.000-08:00

Much excitement as we were able to go and watch Father Christmas arrive on his horse

driven carriage (funny, because in previous years at this event, he's arrived by helicoptor, not sure if He's become more environmentally aware, or more concerned at the cost of fuel, but it was definitely different this year!) Fortunately both Bear and Butterfly are still believers and were totally caught up in the magic of it. M was more keen on the bacon sandwiches after but we all enjoyed the event. Most amusingly - some of the actors from the local panto were there for a bit of pre-arrival crowd entertainment, and to advertise the panto, obviously. One, dressed as a king, asked Butterfly to curtsey if she wanted a lolly, and clearly, those ballet lessons are paying off, as she executed the most perfect little curtsey - given that she is still so tiny for her age (about the size of an average 2.5 year old), I think he was even more surprised that she did it!! Not to be outdone, Bear also managed a very dramatic bow and both were rewarded with lollipops and promises of a wave and a shout out if they attend the panto. I rather think we might!

Mama Son Date

2011-12-02T07:14:00.000-08:00

Bear and I realised recently that we don't get to spend much time together, just he and I. Often times if he is home, so his his sister and my attention is divided between the two. Other times Daddy is home and as this is a rare event, we tend to all spend time together, or if we are splitting up, frequently, it falls down the Daddy/son Mumma/daughter divide too automatically.

So, after he had a special meeting for Beavers a couple of weeks ago, I collected him and we took ourselves into town for a special Mama Son date. We were slightly unfortunate that, being a Sunday (which it had to be so that M could be home to mind Butterfly), a couple of the things we'd thought about doing were shut, so no library time, and no gallery time either, which we had both been looking forward to. However, we did manage to have a fun time poking about in a couple of traditional toy shops, getting some ideas for what he might like as gifts.

And then, of course, we had to stop for refreshments - minty hot choc for him and a chai for me, with plenty of cake of course. We tried a new to us cafe, one I've often walked past, but not previously tried and it was fab, best chai latte I've had in in a long time. Plus we got comfy window seats and were able to sit and chat and watch the world go by. It was fab. It made me realise how much it matters to both of us to do this more often. How he does miss out on one on one time with me, as the dynamic is good, but decidedly different when his sister is there, and just how wonderful and lovely my not so little boy is. <3 him so.

Remembrance

2011-11-30T06:59:00.000-08:00

Just realise that I never got around to posting properly about this. The children's school marked 11.11.11 in such a beautiful manner that I must revisit it and share.

Each child in the school, and preschool (so aged 3 to 11) made a poppy from tissue paper and egg cartons in the days leading up to 11.11, as well, obviously as discussing what we were remembering and why.

On the day itself, there was a whole school assembly, which was going to be held outside, but the weather wasn't especially good. In turn each class walked up to a dias and placed their poppies into a wreath shaped oasis like the one above, whilst a trumpeter from the main school played the Last Post. Then they held the silence. Several of the older boys from the CCF were there as well.

I thought the whole thing was very tasteful, very moving. I'm not one for glorifying war, nor necessarily supporting all the conflicts we are presently involved in. But regardless of one's political beliefs, the soldiers who are injured and killed, now and in the past, are someones son, daughter, husband, brother or sister. And they gave their lives when their country asked it of them. To me that deserves remembering and honouring. Ceremonies such as these teach the children so much, about our history, about our community, about what freedom really means.

Birthday Boy

2011-11-29T06:44:00.001-08:00

for some reason, I can't seem to reply as me to any comments - I do always try to respond to comments, either by leaving a comment on the commentor's blog or email, or commenting underneath. For the time being, if I am leaving a comment underneath a post, I'll be posting as Anonymous - am really over typing some long response and then having Blogger loose it somewhere in the ether. Ahem. Back to normal business::

So, yesterday was Bear's Birthday. A whole EIGHT years old. How on earth did that happen ? One minute he's this little tiny thing in an All Blacks babygro (a first for our hospital), now he's nearly up to my chest in height and capable of rugby tackling me to the floor. Time, really does fly past.

But rather than dwell on how quickly they are growing, how fleeting all these moments are, I shall instead remember one of the nicest birthday celebrations that we've had. We did most of the celebrating at the weekend, as he had a full day of school and after school club yesterday. In the morning he went to a friend's party (he is having one next week for his friends) so in the afternoon, his lovely Nana and Grandad came over and we had ourselves a little family party. Presents were opened and admired. Lego was the overriding theme of the afternoon, with various different sets being received, but he really loves it so much at the moment, it seemed pointless to get too much else. We did get him a couple of books to read, which he was pleased with and the game Battleships, which brought back some happy memories for Daddy too, and they were quite absorbed in that while I prepared the party tea.

We always enjoy a traditional party tea, the birthday child gets to wear their crown and we all feast on (veggie) sausages, sausage rolls, mini eggs - all the standard party fare really. Then it was time to light the candles and sing happy birthday. He'd asked for a Lego cake, but I just didn't have a chance to make one, so compromised instead with a standard style cake and some extra Lego mini figures on the top which did the trick and tasted just as good.

Yesterday he was able to open the last couple of presents before and after school and enjoy some more of the cake. Then in the evening once the day was done, we snuggled on my bed and I told him the Rainbow Bridge story and read the special personalised Birthday Story that his Grandad had made for him when he was little. It was a really mellow and tender end to the day.

I am so proud of my boy. He's grown up in so many ways over the course of this year. Matured, and developed. He's faced some tough challenges with issues at school and changing schools but has remained positive and strong throughout all of it. He's unfailingly good at school and always tries his hardest - he's got the most merit marks and house points of all the boys in his year and was man of the match during his rugby match last week (boasting mumma moment, but if it can't do it here and on his birthday when can i !?) He is very caring and loving towards his sister, and although he can drive me and his father mad at times, we love him oh so dearly, and are so thrilled by what a wonderful young man he is growing into. Now, if he could just slow down that growing thing a bit and let me catch my breath from time to time, that would be even better!

Weekend Walking

2011-11-27T12:06:00.000-08:00

Had a great weekend walk up in Haldon Forest recently. It was mucky and muddy underfoot, which only added to the children's enjoyment. The day was beautiful though, proper crisp clear autumn sunshine. Definitely made me realise that it's more than time to dig out the winter hats and gloves though!!

Autumn Colours

2011-11-26T11:51:00.000-08:00

Arty Day

2011-11-24T11:52:00.000-08:00

I had a wonderful day recently. It started off with a beautiful autumn walk across the campus at the University - they have a lovely sculpture trail across the campus where you can see all manner of different sculptures, including a couple of Henry Moores and Barbara Hepworths, which are amazing. I would love to go to the Hepworth Gallery and it is definitely on my list next time we go to Cornwall.

After that I went to Gallery 36, a local gallery. The very talented artist Veronica Gosling has turned her entire home into a fabulous fun gallery, showcasing her own and a number of other artist's works. There is such a sense of fun, of vibrancy and enjoyment of life there, and the garden is just an exotic riot of crazy unexpected sculptures and delightful surprises. I really recommend going to www.gallery36.co.uk and looking around to get a flavour of the place. Veronica was so welcoming and we had a great time sat in her warm cosy kitchen as the rain poured down outside, enjoying coffee and Devon Apple Cake and discussing art and life and everything in between. Just. So. Much. Fun.

How we have fun here: Outdoors

2011-11-22T11:45:00.000-08:00

Much as we enjoy our indoor playtimes, it is really important to me that the children get plenty of fresh air and exercise, every day if we can help it. No matter what the weather we bundle up and try to go somewhere, either for a walk, bike or scooter ride. We love getting out and about in nature and seeing what we can come across. This day we went for a walk through the woods, swooshed through the fallen leaves, looked for conkers, saw squirrels, talked about anything and everything and then played chase back across the fields before heading home for hot chocolates and homemade apple cake. Happy times

How we have fun here: Indoors

2011-11-20T11:40:00.000-08:00

Just a couple of pics of us, up to our ordinary things, but enjoying every minute of them::

Bear is really into the Lego stage, and fortunately, also at the stage where he can mostly do it with minimal assistance, which since I'm rubbish at it, is definitely a good thing. Butterfly likes to help when she can, although is sometimes more of a hinderance than a help, but he's very patient with her and we do have the best of times playing. We're also really enjoying the chance to read lots and snuggle together - fresh books each week from the library, and old favourites (including our current bedtime read of The Magician's Nephew which I'm enjoying as much again as I did when I was Bear's age) Loving our life together :)

Sparkler Picture

2011-11-18T11:37:00.000-08:00

After the fun that we had on Bonfire Night we decided to create some firework pictures. Butterfly had such fun with the glitter and the paint!

(and now the entire house, Butterfly and I are all nicely covered in a fine shimmer of glitter!!).

I do love this time of year - all the celebrations and excitements and all the excuses for getting out the crafts and glitter and paints - so much fun to be had, it nearly makes up for the gloomy weather and the cold dark nights. Nearly :)

My Little Pumpkin

2011-11-16T11:35:00.000-08:00

Just found this picture, which I took, but then forgot to post on Halloween. My Little Pumpkin!!

London Calling

2011-11-14T11:03:00.000-08:00

During half term we were lucky enough to have a few days away in London. It was so lovely to be up there - such a different way of life. Not one I would necessarily want all the time, but great to enjoy from time to time. We stayed in a great little apartment, nearby the local station and the children were thrilled with the train rides and underground trips and coped really well even when it was at times hugely busy (as an aside, I've never known people so willing to give up their seats as they were for Butterfly - nearly every train or tube we went on, she was offered a seat. I am seriously considering renaming her Princess!)

We packed a fair bit into our time up there - We did the British Museum, which was immense and awesome - I had no idea - we kept our focus on the Ancient Egypt displays as Bear has been studying Ancient Egypt, but we could have been lost in there for days easily. In fact, I think it would be very easy to be completely overwhelmed by all the amazing treasures there are to find.

Another day we did the Natural History Museum, and were all much taken with the Dinosaur Exhibition, although less enamoured of the ma-whos-sive queues to get in - thank goodness it wasn't raining is all I can say. I can also speak highly of the museum cafe - fabulous fresh cakes that were utterly delicious and the perfect restorative for footsore tourists!

It wasn't all culture though - we also spent a morning at Hamleys, the best toy store in the world according to the kiddos - we picked the same morning to go as Jedward (not deliberate) and whilst it earned Bear some kudos amongst his classmates, Butterfly was distinctly unimpressed and burst into tears when M suggested getting her photo taken with them!! I would add though that having thought they were just two untalented slightly oddball publicity obsessed boys, I was filled with respect at the kindness and genuine excitement and love for their fans that the boys showed. They were really kind to everyone waiting to see them and made sure that everyone was happy and had all the photos and time with them that they wanted, even though that meant they were there for ages. I still don't think they are in any way that I can discern talented, but I now have utter respect for them (and think their Mumma should be very proud of the way she raised them to be such young gentlemen.)

The high point of the weekend for me was meeting up with my bestie for the day and seeing her adorable tiny baby. Wow, if any one was going to make me broody she was. Til A started on about leaky boobs and no sleep and stinky nappies. That dealt with the broodiness just fine. But it was lovely to have cuddles all day long and to catch up properly. Although it's been a while since we've seen each other, it really could have been just a few days as we were back in the old groove again. I am so fortunate to have some amazing friends. I tend to prioritise family over friends and put my family's needs ahead of my own, but I really should make more of an effort to see my wonderful friends more often and it did me the world of good to have some special girlie time.

Going to the zoo, zoo, zoo

2011-11-12T11:18:00.000-08:00

One of the other things we did recently was go to the zoo. Bear has to prepare a talk on his favourite animal for school (a three minute talk with accompanying power point presentation no less!) so we decided to go to the zoo and get up close with the meerkats who are to be the subject of his talk.

It was a pretty cold, cloudy and grotty day when we went. Which turned out to be a good thing because I have never seen so many animals so active at a zoo. We saw the lions and tigers pacing about, lots of meerkats, the elephants and the giraffes (my favourites) and the monkeys were having a wonderful time swinging and climbing. The colder weather seemed to mean they were all much more active and awake than normal, so we got to see plenty.

Don't ask me where my daughter learned to pose like this. I have no idea, but I do forsee a lot of trouble coming our way in her teenaged years....

Canal Walks

2011-11-10T06:50:00.000-08:00

The other day Bear went off to a friend's party, and after we dropped him, we decided to make use of the time by going for a walk along the canal - it was a gorgeous autumn afternoon and we had such fun swishing through the leaves, spotting the ducks and generally enjoying the seasonal views.

Topped off by large amounts of cake and coffee from the nearby farm shop.

Bear never wants to go to another party again!

Remember Remember

2011-11-08T10:53:00.001-08:00

We hadn't really planned to do that much for Fireworks Night. M was working, and I'm not mad keen on standing around in the dark and the freezing cold. There's a big celebration of Fireworks Night in the town near where my Mum lives - there is always a fun fair in the few days leading up to the night and then an amazing tradition on the night, where people heave burning barrels full of tar on their backs and run through the streets with this on (honest, it really does happen - google Ottery Tar Barrels if you don't believe me, or check out Clive Chilvers - he tooks some awesome pictures of the night) It really is as mad as it sounds. Anyway, I don't do that either, because I think the kids would be terrified and they aren't old enough to react sensibly or well in the panic filled crowds.

On the afternoon of 5th though my Mum and Dad suggested they take the children over to the fair ensuring they were home well before the barrels started, so the kiddos were able to fully enjoy all the thrills of the fair, winning toy guns and all sorts which mumma would never have gone along with! Then when they got back, Mum had bought some fireworks to surprise them, so we were all able to have a little whizz bang fun. Last year Bear hated them (over zealous safety briefing at school left him fearing for his life with each one lit) but this year he loved it: sadly, Butterfly had her turn of not really enjoying it much, but we were able to retreat inside and she was much happier then.

Thinking that was it, I took the kiddos home and we had a nice warming jacket potato dinner. Then just after they'd gone to bed our fabulous neighbours started the biggest and best display I've seen in quite some time - and the best bit was that Bear and I were able to watch it all knelt up against my bedroom window - nice and warm and cosy with a glass of something lovely. We're really lucky in that the houses in our road are built around a central grass area known locally as The Green - it's a great space for the children who live in the road to play, and lovely for bbqs in the summer and little events like this we are so blessed to have some really lovely neighbours. It was Perfect (butterfly stayed asleep through the whole thing but that was probably for the best). In the end we had a lovely fireworks night and thoroughly enjoyed it all - well, almost all of us did!!

Gnome Picture

2011-11-07T06:36:00.000-08:00

Almost every day for the last two years, since the day that Father Christmas brought her scooter in fact, Butterfly and I have taken a walk around the village. Two highspots on our walk are to go down to the field and see the horsey, and then walk back past the gnome garden.

She adores this garden, which as you can see from the above picture, is chocka full of tiny little gnomes. The magic of this is very much alive for her and we always look to see which ones have moved position from their parties the night before. She peeps through the gate at them, and has long and involved conversations with them about life and the state of the four-year-old universe. The lovely people who own the garden seem not to mind us peering through their garden gate on a daily basis and in the summer even invited her in for a closer look (an invitation she was too timid to want to take up, but one that was appreciated never the less). I've been meaning to do this for ages, but finally we got round to drawing a picture of the gnomes and colouring it in with Butterfly obviously being in charge of and doing a fabulous job of the latter. I then added a little message that she dicated, just saying how much we enjoyed looking at the little gnomes and how grateful we were. Then we went out on our scooter ride and carefully posted the note through the door.

It didn't take much effort, it didn't cost us a penny, but I think it is so important to take the time to teach the children the power of gratitude - how a kind word can make another person's day. I know the lady who lives in the house is now housebound, so I like to think that our little handmade and carefully coloured in note would have come as a pleasant surprise to her, and that it would have made her feel good to know that her much loved garden is bringing and has brought so much joy and happiness to a new generation.

WordQuest Project

2011-11-05T06:22:00.000-07:00

An utterly random image of Butterfly dancing to "Cecilia" - Simon and Garfunkel in our kitchen. Just because it makes me smile and just because I don't have photo that goes with this post!

So, now that the little lady featured above is spending more time at preschool, which she adores, and less time dancing round my kitchen and baking with me, which is I am informed "fun mummy, but not quite so much fun as school coz they have really good toys and stuff and S there" (S being her New Best Friend, with whom she is Joined At the Hip and Loves Very Much, considerably more, it would seem than her own mother), but anyway. Now that she is otherwise happily occupied, I have been thinking of ways to occupy myself.

For the time being I am relieved to confirm these are solely of the amuse myself nature, rather than the having to provide an income nature, although all that may change in the very near future and I am currently, as well as Finding Ways to Amuse Myself and make the most of my days at home, returning to the books and brushing my old skills up to date as it could well be that I will be returning to the working world in the not too distant. More of that, if and when it happens. But in the meantime my focus is strictly on things I can do to make the most of the leisure time.

Which long winded introduction brings me to the point of this post and one of the Things that I am doing. I love reading and am sure that I've waffled on before about our weekly visits to the library and how much pleasure I get from reading. I tend to stick to the lighter books, as I mostly read before going to sleep, but have often thought of tackling something more challenging. I read a few "classics" as a teenager/student, and have often wished I was better read in the proper literature, but then have been unsure where to start.

A while ago, I stumbled across a local initiative called Word Quest. This has been set up to promote literary Devon - exploring the links with the county and classic literature as well as promoting current authors and literary events and festivals taking place. On reading their information I came across a list of authors/books that are considered "worthy" and which all have links with the local area. So, I am undertaking a project to work my way through that list - discovering new writing (new to me that is) and enjoying some old favourites along the way. I will be recording here the books that I read and investigating their links with Devon. Featured on the list are: Jane Austen, RD Blackmore, Elizabeth Barrett Browning (which is a bonus as Robert Browning is one of my favourite poets) Sylvia Plath, Thomas Hardy (obviously) Samuel Taylor Coleridge and many others. I am hoping that the local links will keep my interest and that the list is long enough to develop my knowledge of the greats further, whilst not being overwhelming or daunting. I'll keep you posted....

Making Stuff

2011-11-03T06:13:00.000-07:00

For the first time in ages I was inspired to do something crafty. Somehow with all the other things that are going on, craft time has just utterly and totally disappeared off my radar. Other than sewing Beavers Badges and name tapes on uniforms (there are times when I wish my first born wasn't quite such the acheiver, barely a week goes by without another b***** badge to sew on) I don't think I've done anything since before the start of the summer holidays!

So, overcome one afternoon with the urge to do something and wanting a quick project, I decided to make a cushion cover from some odd bits that I had lying around. There are plently of WIPs that I could have attended to, but I wanted something that was a)new and b) a quick result.

I sewed a patchwork square and then appliqued that onto the cushion. Sadly I ran out of time to finish sewing up the whole cushion (as all the sewing was done by hand, I still don't own a sewing machine - I just can't decide if the use I would really make of it justifies the expense - part of me thinks I would make more stuff if I had a machine, part of me thinks I ought to finish of the WIPs before I decide to do any other projects needing the machine). Hopefully, I'll get to the final seam shortly so that the cushion can take pride of place on the sofa.

One thing I realised was that I did really enjoy the process of making and creating and that it felt really good to be taking a break from doing things that I felt I ought to be doing (chores etc), things that I do for other people (including looking after the children's needs, not that I don't enjoy that or love doing it, but you know what I mean), things I have to do (studying) and just create - have my hands busy, my mind occupied but at rest, from thinking, learning or decision making. Hopefully, I'll remember this and be making some more things soon.

Time Alone

2011-11-01T06:05:00.000-07:00

M and I enjoyed the rarest of occurances a couple of weekends ago. Time alone without the children. Goodness me, it was quiet in our house without them!! They went off for an afternoon of being thoroughly spoiled by their Nana and Grandad (went off I might add without the slightest backwards glance nor even a kiss goodbye - anyone would think they were keen to be rid of us!)

Given that this was the first time that I can remember that M and I have been home alone without the children we were initially at a bit of a loss what to do with ourselves - it was all rather unexpected and lovely. But we decided that we would take the chance to go for a walk ourselves. Savour the novelty of walking at a reasonable pace, without having to cart scooters or drinks or snacks or wipes or any of the million and three things that one just has to think of when undertaking an Outing with Small Children.

It was so much fun. We walked a decent stretch of woods near us, and we talked. About this and that, the state of the world economy (honestly - well, I do have a degree in economics so sometimes it's good to be a bit intellectual, didn't last long though), our plans for the future, how we see things mapping out in the near and long term. And we just talked about nothing as well, giggled over things the children have done that amused us, wondered how they were getting on without us and what stories they were relaying to Nana and Grandad about us.

Then it was home for a slap up dinner cooked by yours truly whilst the younger and senior generations stayed out way past their bedtimes, having far too much fun. We did miss them, obviously, but not that much and it would definitely be an afternoon we would enjoy having again!

Blissful Budleigh

2011-10-31T05:57:00.000-07:00

We seem to have been very frantic lately. Lots of rushing hither and thither. Things to do and places to go and people to see and stuff to do (including one very expensive service on the car to get it through its MOT, and one very amusing eye test, when I learned my eyesight, has for the first time since I was 19 actually improved. Apparently it's something to do with my age. But I shouldn't hope for a miracle cure either.)

So we decided to take a drive down to the beach, to Budleigh Salterton to be precise. We don't end up here all that often although I really don't know why for the life of me as it is so beautiful and so relaxing.

We walked (smalls scootered) along the front, listening to the waves, watching the sun put in a rare appearance making the water shimmer and shine. It was all very mellow and relaxing (well, aside from the smalls nearly taking a couple of the aged population of Budleigh out with the daredevil scootering). Crisis averted we turned our steps/wheels in the direction of The Creamery, purveyor of the finest ice-cream, in well, Budleigh at least. A plethora of flavours meant choosing was agony, but eventually decisions were made (rum n raisin and mint choc chip being the choosen ones - fortunately in two entirely seperate icecreams because that sounds disgusting). We re-traced our steps back to the beach and sat quietly enjoying our ices, listening to the waves, feeling the smooth pebbles, watching the clouds overhead. And all the rushing and the cares and the chores seemed like they were a million miles away. A perfect afternoon.

Fabulous Flowers

2011-10-29T05:44:00.000-07:00

At the risk of coming across all Dame Edna, I do love Gladiolii. There is just something about them as flowers that fills me with laughter and giggles - something that is a bit wild and flamboyant and exciting. So I was very pleased to snaffle these two bunches recently and brighten up the house a bit. Which as you can tell from the frankly, terrible photo, was desparately needed - this photo was taken in the middle of the day of the probably third day of gloomy murky weather - I know it's Autumn and all, but really, a little bit of brightness wouldn't go amiss at all. So, apologies for the dull photo, but do enjoy the flowers - we did. And we put the fairy lights on too. Little touches that make a house a home and brighten up a dull ordinary day.

Walking in the Woods

2011-10-27T05:34:00.000-07:00

Last week, Butterfly's class took a walk through the woods near their school for a bit of autumn foraging and I got to go with them.

It was so much fun - from scrabbling round fitting twelve sets of wellies on twelve sets of feet, to ensuring that every little hand nad a grown up hand to hold as we walked along.

Then we marched down the road and through the fields to reach the woods. It was cloudy and overcast, a proper misty autumn morning but that just made it all the more enjoyable. There was a tricky moment when we had to climb over a bank to get access to the woods and one or two smalls encountered stinging nettles but the swift discovery and application of dock leaves soon put paid to any tears.

We had a bucket with us which all the children were able to put their treasures in - we had all sorts, conkers and acorns, leaves of all colours, sizes and descriptions, plus a few sticks and bits and bobs. And oh, they loved to fill that bucket up!

Then we found the hollowed out tree and each took it in turn to stand in the hollow and see if they fitted whilst I spun stories of fairy parties and gnome gatherings. Finally there was time for a game of throwning stones in the river (whilst avoiding decapitating any classmates) before we re-traced our steps and ran wild across the fields.

Love seeing the children enjoying nature, being given the chance to get mucky, get hands on and to roam free. Love how Bear's teachers don't bow to health and safety but not only encourage the children to play conkers, but even join in the tournaments themselves! We are so blessed to be able to do this with the children and I hope that they will each have so many happy memories in years to come of the blessings from Mother Nature.

Reiki 2

2011-10-25T08:33:00.000-07:00

Well, despite my high hopes in my last post, sadly it was not to be. The course didn't go ahead as planned due to lack of numbers. I'm pretty disappointed I have to say as I was really looking forward to it and to being able to give treatments.

However, it has forced us to evaluate things at home and have some *big discussions* about how our future might pan out. We've really thought around the subject for once and challenged some of our previous assumptions. Nothing is set in stone yet, but we have some ideas, some plans and some dreams, all of which are pretty exciting and all of which we are both enthusiastic about (me and M this is, the children won't be told until we figure things out for sure). I can't really comment too much more at the moment, as we've got some arrangements to make, but as soon as everything is in place, I'll be sharing more! Keep your fingers crossed that this all works out!

Which has led me to wonder if it was meant to be that things worked out as they did with the course - I don't think we'd have had these discussions or that I would have been so open minded if the course had happened as I was expecting, so perhaps it all worked out for the best in the end. We shall have to see!

Reiki

2011-10-22T07:02:00.000-07:00

I'm starting a Reiki course this month. Reiki means universal life force. It is not a religion, nor founded on any set of beliefs, although there are a group of 5 precepts to live by, for each day. It is connected to the energy that is all around us, and is a healing system allowing that energy to flow freely. In creating a still and silent environment for conducting the treatment, it is understood that stillness and quietness are created in the heart and mind of the person receiving the treatment.

I am sure I'll be writing more about this as I learn more, and I am so excited to start on this journey. I have had a few treatments before, but I am going to be learning how to deliver the treatments myself.

Hopefully, once I've finished the course I'll be able to give away a few treatments to followers here, just my little way of saying thank you for checking in with me, I can do treatments in person to those who are near Exeter, Devon, or via distance reiki for those who are further away or overseas. I'll keep you posted!

Autumn Dawn

2011-10-19T07:01:00.000-07:00

Stover

2011-10-16T06:58:00.000-07:00

In one of our rare non-rugby days, we made it down to Stover woods to walk through the crisp fallen leaves, eat an unseasonably warm picnic (it was bliss) and of course, feed the ducks.

The trees were ablaze with autumnal beauty, it was breathtaking. So still and peaceful too - really makes me realise how much I love the beauty of autumn, especially the crisp clear days.

Rugby (again)

2011-10-13T06:52:00.000-07:00

We're definitely a rugby house here. Lots of being glued to the footage of the World Cup. Obviously I wrote recently about Butterfly being mascot (the most interested she has ever been in rugby to be fair).

Bear has been to more rugby games than is believable for a child his age. He's grown up with it, and fortunately, adores it. This year he made the difficult decision not to continue to play for his junior team because of other commitments at school.

However, in a true reward from the universe, he has over the last few weeks been picked to play for his school team, one of the few from his year, as most of the players are from the year above. He's been travelling all over on the school coach to play hotly contested matches, sweltering in the very non-typical rugby weather, but generally doing very well and receiving lots of praise from his teachers for his ability to read the game. Excitement such as it is, I have no photos of this at present, but there are plenty more games to come, so I am sure some photos will follow, but he is doing so well, that I just wanted to record it all now - how he manages to put in the tackles he does on boys so much bigger I have no idea, it stills my heart each time I see it, but he is happy, he loves it, and by all accounts, he's proving to be very good at it, so I will hide my mumma panics, my urges to tell them not to dare hurt my precious boy and concentrate instead on washing endless loads of muddy kit and cheering all the way home!

From one extreme...

2011-10-09T06:47:00.000-07:00

One week mascot for the Chiefs, the next a sweet little fairy!!

My mum bought her this costume for her birthday - it was hard to capture in this photo, but it is covered in glitter (as are most of the surfaces now in my house, the car and her school, ahem) which means that it sparkles brilliantly in the sunshine.

Anyway, for the end of Book Week at school the children had the chance to dress up as their favourite character from a book- as we possess the Flower Fairy Book of Winter Fairies and she was desparate to dress up in her new dress, we decided that she would go as a fairy from the book. She adored being a Snowflake Fairy and had the most fabulous day listening to the teacher's favourite stories and generally glittering and twinkling about the place.

Bear it seems is too grown up these days for all the dressing up, but he did get to meet author Jon Blake, who gave a brilliant talk, so I am told, and that more than made up for the lack of dressing up opportunities, at least in his book!

Mascot

2011-10-06T06:36:00.000-07:00

A couple of weekends ago, my little Butterfly was picked to be mascot for the Exeter Chiefs.

To be totally honest, I wasn't sure if she was going to do it or not - she's quite the shy retiring type (so unlike her brother) and doesn't like crowds, or noise, or being the centre of attention. So, you can imagine, running out on the centre of the pitch infront of a crowd of over 6,000 people, being the one that everyone is looking at, with accompanying cheering, music and celebrations, well, it's not really her thing.

How wrong was I??! As you can probably see from the photo, she loved it. Every single minute of it. All credit to the brilliant team there, especially Keith Fleming who showed her what to do, and where to be and made it such a special day for her. But yes, she had her photo taken with a player (wee bit of mummy jealousy there!), she got to keep the kit she ran out in and she had the most wonderful experience running out.

Sunny Days

2011-10-04T06:28:00.000-07:00

Hasn't it just been gorgeous ??

We have so been loving this unseasonable weather. I find it really odd - walking around looking at everyone in shorts and t-shirts then remembering, but this is October??

Anyway, we've been making the most of it - living as if it is summer all over again, soaking up with warmth before the winter hits in. Hope you are having fun too xx

Feed the Birds

2011-09-28T07:12:00.000-07:00

I did wonder how Butterfly would be when her brother returned to school after having spent so long with him over the summer, and the odd fight here and there, they have been inseperable (in fact, even when they are winding each other up, they are inseperable, sometimes they just seem to enjoy fighting against each other, but whenever I suggest one leaves the other alone, or goes to their room, neither will, or if I enforce it, they are sneaking out onto the landing and playing again together within minutes)!

Anyway, I wondered if she would be a bit lost without him, but to my surprise she seems to have adapted very well. We've settled back into our old routines, trips to the Library and Cafe a deux, Mumma and Daughter baking instead of all three, painting (Bear was never keen to do that), playing and being together. She is such a sweet soul, and so able to entertain herself, spending hours playing imaginary games with her toys or even without - just lost in her own little word. And she so loves nature, loves to be outside, feels such a connection to the animals and the birds - talks to the horse that we have to go visit every day, talks to the plants and the trees and the gnomes in the secret garden we walk past on the way home from the horse's field. She is such a beautiful soul, such a contented and happy child. We are so blessed by her presence in our lives and for that I give thanks each and every day .

Druid Plant Oracle

2011-09-26T07:19:00.000-07:00

During the summer I took delivery of this:: the Druid Plant Oracle:: a set of Oracle Cards - which are so beautiful, and a book detailing the plant lore and the guidance that can be derived from each one.

The Druids considered that plant had special meanings - this deck, created by some leading Druids, chooses 36 of the most significant and teaches all about them. It's been such an education, learning about the healing qualities of each plant, the history and how and where each grow. In addition the mystical side fascinates me. I like these almost more than tarot cards as they are less about prescribing the future, but more about exploring particular situations and the feelings assosicated with them and then giving guidance as to how to approach that situation. I would love to be able to have a career reading these cards for people and using them as tools to help them develop their future in the best way possible.

In the meantime, if you are interested in a free reading being emailed, leave me some details in the comments - I'm only starting out at the moment, but would be more than happy to do a reading if anyone wants to volunteer.

Beautiful Skies

2011-09-25T07:10:00.000-07:00

Butterfly's Party

2011-09-22T07:02:00.000-07:00

I just realised how time is going on, and I haven't posted any pictures from Butterfly's birthday or party - although I have just also realised that that is in part because all the birthday party pictures are on the big camera and still need to be downloaded to the computer. So, here are some before and after pictures - all dressed up and ready, and then all happy and playing with some of her lovely presents.

She had such a fun weekend - her actual birthday was spent with family - me and her brother in the morning as M was working, and then with Nana and Grandad (who gave her the bike) in the afternoon - as you can probably tell from the photos she was most happy with it and so very very excited.

And the excitement didn't stop there as she had a party with Dadda and her friends the next day. She had several friends over and we played lots of party games, played hide and seek around the house, and generally had a great time. There was, of course a birthday tea, provided by yours truly, which I really enjoyed - everything was home made, and whilst I totally over catered (M's co-workers were the beneficiaries there) it was all lovely - pizza and sandwiches and vegan sausage rolls to start with with lots of raw veggies (mostly ignored, but it made me feel better), then honey cookies, vegan cupcakes, carob flapjack and raisin flapjack before the piece de resistance (not made by me) Harry the Hedgehog birthday cake, which was chosen with much eagerness and anticipation at the shop. Everyone seemed to have a great time and the afternoon just flew by - we are very blessed to have some wonderful friends and they all made her day so special. Fun times.

But really 4 ?? How did that happen ?

Paper Collective

2011-09-19T06:49:00.000-07:00

Another great day out that we had over the course of this summer was a visit to our local gallery. They were hosting an exhibition of all things paper related.

We started off with a scooter ride and a picnic by the river, as it was a beautiful summer day, and it was very tempting to linger by the riverside, but we were determined to do some crafting, so we set off for the gallery.

Once inside the lovely lovely ladies running the exhibition were so friendly and helpful, very welcoming indeed. We had a look at some of the exhibits - the children were particularly struck with the giant paper envelope that you could crawl inside, and this paper castle, full of paper balls that could be scrunched up, thrown about and generally made merry with.

The next part was the big fun part - the hands on stuff. There were so many different things to make and do - we started off by making our own notebooks which was such fun - we selected different paper to bind the outside, then cut up paper to make the writing pages before Mumma stapled the whole thing together to make our very own totally unique notebooks (and yes, Mumma did help them make them, and no, Mumma didn't get to make one of her own, and yes, Mumma did really, really want one of her own).

Then we made paper mache masks and decorate them with all the different types of paper that were to hand, including old music, old maps, old books, tissue paper, and so much more besides. While the children were busy gluing and sticking and shredding and printing, I made a couple of handmade cards of my own, which was most satisfying. We were there for ages, as they were both totally absorbed in their creations, although the best bit was hiding when they got home and then leaping out and surprising Daddy - for once I was able to tell him that they'd really been Little Monsters all day!!

Summer Days:: Labyrinth

2011-09-16T06:33:00.000-07:00

One of the days that we really enjoyed this summer, but which I never got around to mentioning was a trip to Seaton Labyrinth. To be honest, I really wasn't sure that it would work out as a day out, as I didn't know if the children would be interested or not, but it turned out that they really REALLY enjoyed it.

We struggled a bit to find the Labyrinth at first, then stumbled across it almost by accident (a few signs wouldn't go amiss, Seaton Town Council). It had been quiet sunny, and was dry and perfectly still when we arrived, but as we were there, the clouds started to roll in and the sky took on some dramatic changes as heavy dark grey almost black clouds closed in overhead. Fortunately we were able to do all that we wanted before the rains came down - I'm sure there was some special serendipity in the timing.

I had told the children before that this was a special site and that people might be there wanting to seek peace or quiet or meditate (they watch me meditate at home so they knew about that), but I did have concerns that they would understand that, but whether there was something special about the atmosphere at the site - which there really seemed to be to me- it was almost magical, they were totally hushed the entire time we were there. There was one other family there when we arrived, but they left shortly afterwards so we had it entirely to ourselves from time to time.

Both children chose to walk the path by themselves, separate from each other and from me, in fact Bear walked it twice. I can't speak for their experience, all I can do is try to describe mine, but I did notice how slowly and mindfully they each seemed to walk, how they each concentrated on following the paths, not skipping over the boundaries, but taking each part carefully. As for me, well, I don't even know if I can put the experience into words, which is partly why I haven't written about it before. It was just amazing - uplifting spiritually, intense, relaxing and yet invigorating. As I walked into the centre, I really did sense a turning in, an inner reflection, thinking about how things are, things I would like to change about myself:: it almost felt like I was hunching over, curling up. I stayed at the centre point taking some deep breaths and trying not to think about anything much. And then I walked the spiral back out again, in reverse, and it did feel like I was opening up, breathing deeper, walking taller, lifted, freed from burdens. I can't say that anything obvious changed, but somewhere deep inside, I think there were some fundamental shifts, some opening up. Some changes, some that I haven't processed yet, some I don't even really understand either, but I think it will become clearer as time passes.

After we completed the labyrinth we strolled down to the beach and stood by the ocean for some time, breathing in the salty air, listening to the cries of the birds and watching the waves tumble the stones on the shore. It was magical, spiritual, uplifting and amazing.

Back to School

2011-09-13T06:21:00.000-07:00

So, it was back to school last week for the little peeps. We were all feeling pretty sad about this, not that they don't love their new school and they were excited to see all their friends again after such a long break. But despite the length of their summer holidays, it still didn't feel long enough, there was still so much that we could have still done together, so many plans that we didn't manage to carry out. That said we did have some amazing times too and did some things that weren't originally planned, so I guess it all works out in the end.

I don't know if I've mentioned before, but we are thinking about moving and whilst we do want to move (within the local area) for lots of reasons, I've resented the amount of time and attention that has taken up over this summer - we've been to look at several houses, and actually made an offer on one, although it ended up not working out. But all the looking, viewings, talking with agents, talking with each other, deciding about prices and offers and counter offers, all took attention away from enjoying the summer with the little people which I resent. Quite a lot, as it turns out.

Still, at the end of the holidays we looked back decided we'd had some good times:: I've a couple more days out that I want to post about because they were so good:: on our last afternoon though we organised a special End of Summer Tea Party:: we baked some treats, set the table and I wrote each of the children a letter which they read before we started eating (or had read to her in Butterfly's case!) Accompanying each letter was a little fairy to give each of them good luck on their school journey this year:: they were both thrilled, and both slept with their fairies (in fact I think they still are). It's the first time for ages that I've sewed anything except name tags into uniform (which I hate, for the record - the sewing that is) and it was such a pleasure:: so we definitely ended on a high note.

They both seem to have settled well into their new classes, both have professed to like their new teachers and seem to be coping with the additional demands on them - hopefully they'll continue to make good progress and enjoy it.

As for me, well, I'm in the process of developing some business ideas now that I have some time to myself - something I can do from home/around school hours, but that will bring in some income and keep me out of mischief. Once I have my ideas clearer, I will share more - basically I'm looking into offering Tarot readings (have done them for years for friends, although not so much since the children came on the scene so am having to refresh my memory) and I am going on a Reiki course next month, in the hope that I can then offer Reiki treatments - but more on that another time, as I've got to go now and collect Butterfly from her school day and hear all about how she has got on!

Birthday Fairy

2011-09-10T13:18:00.001-07:00

My darling girl is 4 today! Four!! I can hardly believe it. The years have gone by so quickly. I miss having that dearest babe snuggling in my arms but I so love the beautiful soul that she is growing into. She has grown and changed so much this year, as you would expect. She is really blossoming - so much more confident and independent than she was last year. She's settled and happy in her pre-school group, has a wonderful sweet bunch of friends and is growing in confidence in playing with them. She has gone from being a quiet little thing to non-stop chitter-chatter all day long, but I love to hear her at play and see fascinating snippets into her world.

We have such happy days together, weaving in and out of each other's doings, sometimes playing together, or doing our little things on our own. We have our regular routines - Library and Cafe Day, Baking Day, Painting Day, each day a pleasure to share in her delight. Every day no matter what the weather we go for our little nature walk, to greet the horses in the field at the end of the road and visit the gnomes.

Nothing in life has ever brought me so much unbridled pleasure, joy and happiness. I don't know what I ever did to deserve to be so blessed with this darling girl, but I give thanks every single moment of every single day that she has been brought into my life.

Cafe Day

2011-09-06T07:39:00.000-07:00

I know I write often about our cafe days and how much we love them:: but love them oh so much we do. We have established a regular pattern of going and doing any necessary shopping first to get it over and done with:: then with that out of the way we walk to the library:: enjoy the peace and calm and silence:: the intellectual stimulation rather than the assault on our senses occasioned by the shops:: we carefully peruse the shelves, each making our selections:: knowing they are set in stone at least until the following week:: sometimes we see friends and stop for a chat:: Butterfly rides on the ancient rocking horse::

Then we walk/run around the corner, through the ancient streets, past the interesting and independent shops, enjoying the scent of incense, peeking through some of the windows:: admiring the unique jewellery:: listening to the music from the old record shop:: then to our cafe:: seeing friends:: catching up:: placing our regular drinks order and then deliberating over which of this week's cakes is going to be the best selection:: picking one out for M who is working and unable to join in this weekly expedition:: climbing upstairs to choose our table:: sometimes scoring the comfy sofas:: other times eschewing that option for the best tables:: then indulging:: savouring:: enjoying:: Bear can't wait and gets stuck into his reading material:: Butterfly devotes herself entirely to the appreciation of all that is pink and cupcake like:: I sip my chai latte (the drink of the heavens) and look around me:: love watching other people:: what they are wearing:: what they are doing:: guessing at what they may be thinking::

Reluctantly we tear ourselves away:: satisfied:: ready to go back out into the real world:: to deal with whatever the rest of the week might have in store for us:: knowing that next week we will be able to do it all again:: and it will be every bit as enjoyable, all over again

(Except, I should add, that in a weeks time it will be just be and Butterfly doing this little ritual as Bear will be off to full time schooling again, his choice):: we will miss him on these little trips:: we will have to purchase a cake for him in his absence too:: we will choose books for him that we hope he will enjoy and we will look forward to the next set of holidays when he can join us again:: What I am going to do when Butterfly follows her big brother into the doors of full time education I do not know:: whilst there are days I crave some peace, I fear this routine of ours will be unbearable to undertake without a little companion or two).

Party Time

2011-09-04T07:36:00.000-07:00

A fabulous party:: a great chance to catch up with friends and families and find out what everyone has been doing for the summer:: praying for sunshine and being rewarded with unexpected clear blue skies and blistering warmth:: treats for the children:: face painting:: glitter tattoos:: tshirt printing:: giant waterslide fun and games:: amazing cake creations::

And for the adults:: time to chat and catch up:: delicious Tibetan curries:: awesome tunes and a sense of belonging and community and acceptance

Summer Break: A Round Up

2011-09-02T07:31:00.000-07:00

Other ways we spent our Days:: Playing at the Park, swinging and sliding and singing and shouting

Creating new games from old toys

Taking Delight in the misty mornings:: watching one season draw to a close as another starts:: appreciating all the summer gave us and anticipating the treats of autumn:: Fires:: misty mornings:: scarves:: woollens:: hearty comfort food:: reading snuggled indoors::

Fun in the sun:: a special treat::

Some images that were too special not to post, but missed their moment in the Summer Break Series::

Summer Break #31

2011-08-31T07:28:00.000-07:00

Den building:: creating a little magical world all of their own:: bonding:: sharing::squabbling:: making up:: busy busy days full of imagination & activity:: no TV all summer:: no computers:: healthy happy industrious children:: growing in every way

Summer Break #30

2011-08-30T07:25:00.000-07:00

Couldn't resist two photos:: from a couple of weekends back:: a break away to celebrate, belatedly, 10 blissful years of marriage:: two days:: no children:: civilisation and luxury:: relaxation on every level:: delicious food:: time to savour:: country house living:: country walks:: magazine reading:: comfy sofas:: comfy beds:: roll top baths filled with bubbles:: an oasis of calm, peace and tranquility:: feels like a mirage amongst the busy over full hectic days

Summer Break #29

2011-08-29T07:23:00.000-07:00

Harvested fields signalling the end of summer:: chill in the air in the mornings and the

evenings:: hedgerows full of hips and haws:: berries red and black:: enjoying every last minute of our summer freedom, yet thoughts turning inexorably to autumn:: to school:: to the changing season and the new experiences ahead::

Summer Break #28

2011-08-28T07:21:00.000-07:00

My dream house in the woods:: here in my little cottage I would bake and sew and knit and create my herbal magic:: read by the fire:: walk in the woods:: I could cheerfully live here in splendid isolation - provided there was a regular supply of fresh reading and crafting materials of course:: Loving the woods::

Summer Break #27

2011-08-27T07:18:00.000-07:00

A rare afternoon of just me and Bear:: Butterfly enjoying Nana time:: Bear and I indulging in pleasures of just us two:: chess:: reading and then a game of rugby at the park (despite appearances, he did have a good time - honest!)

Summer Break #26

2011-08-26T07:16:00.000-07:00

Cafe and Library Day:: Good books:: different cafe:: deciding that although the berry smoothies were G-o-o-d familiar is better and vowing to return to our regular cafe next week:: enjoying the vegetarian food:: soaking up the atmosphere:: the intellectual alternative creative vibe:: but if the cakes aren't as good, well we just can't change our loyalty

Summer Break #25

2011-08-25T07:14:00.000-07:00

Baking Day:: Gingerbread men::

Rhythm:: Patterns:: Head, hands and heart:: All the tenets that hold our summer together

Summer Break #24

2011-08-24T07:11:00.000-07:00

Just Beautiful::

Summer Break #23

2011-08-23T11:41:00.000-07:00

Chai Latte and a good read:: unusually cafe time alone:: time for more thinking:: more clarity:: for studying and learning:: time to savour my special oh so lovely drink:: and then, time to spend with a dear friend:: listening:: sharing:: laughing:: hugging:: returning to centre:: being authentic:: And then returning home:: filled up:: relaxed:: rejuvenated:: ready to pour my love out on my family again:: to provide and nurture them having been nurtured and filled my own cup::

Summer Break #22

2011-08-22T11:38:00.000-07:00

Morning sunshine as I walk through the woods:: time to think and mull things over:: to puzzle through the issues that are in my mind:: to find solutions and resolutions that come easy out in nature but seemed beyond my grasp the more I thought indoors:: peace and silence:: just me, the bunnies and the birds:: suddenly, light dawns and it all becomes clear::

Summer Break #21

2011-08-21T11:35:00.000-07:00

Berry moustaches:: smoothies for brekkie made from berries picked the day before:: a healthy start to the day:: a dawn hike and some yoga for me:: a blissful start to everyone's day::

[those who follow on twitter will realise that some of these posts relate to activities that we did a few days ago - I've fallen behind on the posting somewhat, but am still following the spirit of Summer Break - one photo, one sentence, summing up the day we lived]

Summer Break #20

2011-08-20T11:31:00.000-07:00

Fruit picking:: and eating:: blackberries and raspberries:: eating as many as we put in the containers:: planning delicious treats with those that do make it home:: watching the trains zoom past:: admiring the view across the river from the farm:: making connections:: connections with each other:: connections with nature:: connecting where our food comes from and the work and effort involved to bring it to our table:: home to make blackberry and apple crumble to enjoy hot from the oven with lashings of cream:: the taste of late summer::

Summer Break #19

2011-08-19T11:30:00.000-07:00

Never too early in the day for some quality posing:: you know you're cool when you have your shades on for breakfast::

Summer Break #18

2011-08-18T11:27:00.000-07:00

(bending the Summer Break rules with 2 photos, but these both captured the essence of the festival so well, I just couldn't choose)

Time at the Sidmouth Folk Festival a few days ago:: music:: performance:: entertainers:: street vendors:: funky clothes:: beautiful people:: relaxed fun:: playing:: beach picnics::

Summer Break #17

2011-08-17T11:22:00.000-07:00

Taking a treat for our favourite horse:: giving some pleasure to him for all the pleasure that he gives to us on our daily walks:: a walk is not complete without paying this splendid horse a visit and filling him in on what we have been doing:: then we go to visit with the gnomes:: same walk daily yet it is never dull, never boring:: we see the changing of the seasons:: the growth of new shoots in the spring:: the wildflowers during the summer:: how the grasses are growing brown now at the summer's end:: we learn about plants:: nature:: rhythms:: seasons:: patience:: routine. Then home to enjoy a treat of our own - we baked coconut and mango cupcakes - they have been declared one of the best of the summer so far::

Summer Break #16

2011-08-16T11:20:00.000-07:00

A busy day of chores:: house-cleaning:: fresh laundry:: clean sheets drying on the line:: in between times:: playing:: baking:: reading together:: loving our at home days:: loving the summer sun:: loving our slow days

Summer Break #15

2011-08-15T11:17:00.000-07:00

Enjoying the sunshine:: passing on my passions:: being outside:: reading:: happy summer times all together:: balancing running and playing with reading and being still

Summer Break #14

2011-08-14T11:14:00.000-07:00

The best kind of Flowers:: enjoying a Mumma and daughter day while Bear spends the day at rugby camp with his Dadda:: nature walking:: reading:: playing:: quiet time:: a girlie day

Summer Break #13

2011-08-13T06:52:00.000-07:00

Walking by the canal:: looking at the houseboats:: thinking and dreaming about the house and life we want to manifest for our family:: picnic by the waterside:: seeing cygnets and telling tales of the Ugly Duckling:: making plans and dreaming dreams

Summer Break #12

2011-08-12T06:50:00.000-07:00

Fabulous fabric:: beautiful crafts:: in awe of others talents:: inspired:: exotic patchwork::

Summer Break #11

2011-08-11T06:49:00.000-07:00

Constantly amazed at the beauty of the natural world around us:: uplifting:: moving:: peaceful:: bliss-filled

Summer Break #10

2011-08-10T06:46:00.000-07:00

Folk Festival:: meeting more likeminded folk:: beautiful wooden furniture:: flower decorations for faery-girl hair:: picnics on the beach:: playing at the park::

Summer Break #9

2011-08-09T06:44:00.000-07:00

Excitement delivered by the postman:: works of art in card form:: a new way of living unfolding:: manifesting:: learning:: growing:: being moved:: energised:: transformed::

Summer Break #8

2011-08-08T06:41:00.000-07:00

Baking Day:: making and baking:: creating goodness:: vegan chocolate chip muffins this time:: measuring and weighing:: learning recipes:: stirring and mixing:: licking the bowl and the spoons and anything else with mixture on:: an exercise in patience as they first cook, then cool:: savouring the fruits of our labours with a cup of tea or glass of juice::

Summer Break # 7

2011-08-07T06:30:00.000-07:00

Early morning walks:: watching the dawn break over the fields:: time to think and ponder:: to plan and reflect:: time to be:: time for me before the busy-ness of the day takes over:: honouring myself in order to fully nurture and care for my family::

Summer Break #6

2011-08-06T06:27:00.000-07:00

Having a rhythm for every day:: one that includes a walk through the village to visit the horse and the gnomes:: balancing each day:: no clock watching:: endless days of summer fun:: summer loving:: time to just be

Summer Break #5

2011-08-05T06:24:00.000-07:00

Painting Day:: taking the paints outside:: feeling nature:: capturing it on the page:: shreiking as the wind takes the papers:: laughing as we chase the breeze:: finding stones to weight it down:: painting hands:: reading stories whilst we watch the colours dry

Summer Break:: #4

2011-08-04T06:20:00.000-07:00

Home at our regular cafe:: not the same as holiday but still fun:: sharing with Bear:: library visits:: stocking up on summer reads:: then summer treats:: strawberry smoothies and energy bars:: seeing dear friends:: <3 our cafe mornings

Summer Break #3

2011-08-03T06:18:00.000-07:00

Summer Holiday Love:: late night Chai Latte, made in the most delicious way at Secreto:: our

soul food home:: delicious drinks:: homemade ice-cream:: yummy breakfasts:: a cafe we could visit every day.